The Hardest Part About Losing Our Dog Louis

April 30, 2024 By E.J. Smith - Your Survival Guy

The hardest part about losing our dog Louis is how losing him brought back feelings for others we’ve lost. That feeling of loss resurfaces. That and the quiet. The house is quiet. It’s missing a life that was literally just there. Certain times of the day are harder than others. The mornings and coming home from work are tough. It’s jarring when daily rituals stop.

“Will you get another?” I’m asked.

Time will tell. It hurts to lose.

It hurts to lose anything, money included. There are memories that go along with those dollars you earned. I remember cutting lawns and scooping ice cream. I can’t work those wages again. They’re gone. But I have the memories and the lessons.

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But remember this: there’s no such thing as “Oh, you can afford to lose. You have plenty of money.” It’s like saying I’m OK losing our dog Louis. That’s not how life works. A loss is a loss.

It’s why losing money is twice as painful as making it. And loss is one of life’s tragedies.

Action Line: Most investors learn the pain of losing money the hard way. Don’t lose money. Don’t mistreat precious memories. Those days are gone. But you can keep them forever. Let’s talk.

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E.J. Smith is Founder of YourSurvivalGuy.com, Managing Director at Richard C. Young & Co., Ltd., a Managing Editor of Richardcyoung.com, and Editor-in-Chief of Youngresearch.com. His focus at all times is on preparing clients and readers for “Times Like These.” E.J. graduated from Babson College in Wellesley, Massachusetts, with a B.S. in finance and investments. In 1995, E.J. began his investment career at Fidelity Investments in Boston before joining Richard C. Young & Co., Ltd. in 1998. E.J. has trained at Sig Sauer Academy in Epping, NH. His first drum set was a 5-piece Slingerland with Zildjians. He grew-up worshiping Neil Peart (RIP) of the band Rush, and loves the song Tom Sawyer—the name of his family’s boat, a Grady-White Canyon 306. He grew up in Mattapoisett, MA, an idyllic small town on the water near Cape Cod. He spends time in Newport, RI and Bartlett, NH—both as far away from Wall Street as one could mentally get. The Newport office is on a quiet, tree lined street not far from the harbor and the log cabin in Bartlett, NH, the “Live Free or Die” state, sits on the edge of the White Mountain National Forest. He enjoys spending time in Key West (RIP JB) and Paris. Please get in touch with E.J. at ejsmith@yoursurvivalguy.com To sign up for my free monthly Survive & Thrive letter, click here.

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